Growing up, I used to have a
policy about books: Each one that I picked up, I would finish. I was
extremely proud of this fact. From required books in middle school and
high school, to books I read for pleasure, there wasn't a book I would
put down once I started.
You see, the world of books was a great expanse of undiscovered adventures, and I knew the author would never steer me wrong.
So,
it was a great shock (call me naive) when words, scenes, or expressions
were used that made me uncomfortable. An author would never include
something that would make me feel that way. So, I would simply keep
reading. After all, books were holy. They were my guides through thick
and thin.
But
the more and more I read, the more and more I realized that not every
book was for me. So, I made rough guidelines for myself. I wouldn't read
a book that swore too much. I was around it often enough at school, so
why would I surround myself in it outside of school?
So, here are my guidelines for a good No Swears Book:
1.
If it swears three times, I put the book down. On occasion, a book will
swear a couple more times than this, and I don't find it offensive, but
this is rare.
2. I don't read books with the "f bomb" or that take Christ's name in vain.
3. I don't read books with immoral scenes.
4. I don't read books that feel derogatory about/towards women.
5. I don't read books with excessive violence.
What
books are left, then, you might say? This I find to be one of the
greatest challenges, as well as one of the greatest pleasures. To read a
book that I feel 100% guilt free about that is still exciting and plot
driven is like eating a dessert that won't do me one bit of harm. That's
not to say there aren't books out there that swear, that have scenes
(perhaps historical) that don't meet my guidelines that aren't worth
reading. But I believe the questions of the world can be faced by
holding to my guidelines. Simple as that.
There's power in picking up a book. There's power in delving into an author's world and discovering new thoughts and ideas.
But sometimes there's just as much power in putting it down. Who wants to do that all the time, though?
So, that's why I'm here--so you can skip the guilt and get on with the reading.
Get on with the discovering.
I love this blog! I've been an avid "cover to cover " reader for over 50 years, but how do YOU find these great books today? Go back to books published 50 years ago or more?? It seems that almost every "new" book I pick up is filled with swear words. I have found myself going to older books; their stories are unique and don't have them.
ReplyDeleteHi, Marilyn! Thanks for your comment - I love hearing feedback and am happy to answer any questions. You asked how I find clean books. My answer involves a few ways. When I first started reading, I simply got lucky. The first author I stumbled into was Shannon Hale, who is likely the cleanest writer I have ever read, and whom I trust greatly. I started following her blog, and would look into authors she would interview or books she recommended. From there, my base of authors I trust has grown, and I do similar tactics with their blogs. Shadow Mountain Publishing is also a great publisher for clean books, and there are some books from a list called Beehive Book Awards that I use. Of course, I love classics as well, and sometimes I'll find a promising book while hunting around in the bookstore. It really depends on what you're the most interested in. If I can help you out any more, let me know!
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